Hello, 2020!

Posted: January 1, 2020 in Tiffany

Happy New Year everybody!

2019 was an interesting year, and something of a transitional phase for me both personally and professionally. A lot is going to change moving forward, and I want to make sure that everyone knows where to find me on the internet in the future. TiffanyNaylor.com looks like it will be my main social media platform. I have been slowly building up my content and presence there over the last few months, and I really rate it. It works Just like Twitter in that you can follow people, but there is also a subscription option should you so chose. It’s a bit like if Twitter and OnlyFans had a baby, from what I can make out so far! I would strongly urge all my Twitter/Insta followers to follow me on here, as it’s likely I won’t be around on either platform for too much longer.

If you wish to be added to my mailing list, please use the contact form on the Booking tab. This site will be getting overhauled and revamped in the not too distant future and I wish to ensure I have my mailing list set up before I start fiddling with it!

I publish my clips at TiffanyNaylorClips.com – check it out if you’re not already familiar. In fact, below are links to my top ten selling clips of 2019 – this should give you a flavour of what to expect from me, although I am always trying new things:

10. Lick My Muddy Boots Clean! 

9. Superstar Stomping

8. Tiny Foot Pet Humiliation

7. Disruptor Destruction

6. Busted

5. Bad Babysitter

4. Escape

3. Trainer Torment

2. Timberland Boots Ballbusting – in Public!

1. Muddy Wellies Ball Stomping 


That’s it from me for now, but I shall be updating you all as much as possible over the coming months. Have a wonderful 2020, everyone!


MTN xx



Jingle Balls Christmas Competition!

Posted: November 11, 2019 in Tiffany

Hello all,

I hope you are keeping warm this Winter so far – whoever is buying all my clips this month is certainly keeping themselves cosy and busy!

I have decided to run a little Christmas competition this year – JINGLE BALLS! This will begin on Sunday 1st December until Thursday 12th December. (Entries received prior to/after these dates will be ignored!)

The aim of the game is to decorate your cock and balls and make them look festive and pretty – tbh I think all guys should do this year round, but whatever.


  1. You MUST be following me on AVN Stars. I will not accept submissions on Twitter, Instagram or any other platform.
  2. Submit a photo of your handiwork via DM of your Christmassy cock and balls. Be creative!
  3. THE FIRST 12 PARTICIPANTS TO SUBMIT AN ENTRY WILL GET A FREE 1 MONTH SUBSCRIPTION TO MY AVN STARS! This is the best part of the whole competition – I am clearly feeling uncharacteristically generous! (If you are already subscribed, well done! You can still submit an entry.)
  4. The overall winner will be decided and announced on Christmas Eve, and their prize will be a personalised cock rating video, based upon their submission. So the more effort you put in, the better your video will be!

So get creative and get involved – I look forward to seeing your entries…!


Autumn Update

Posted: October 20, 2019 in Tiffany

I love the Autumn (or Fall, if you are across the pond) and it is well and truly upon us now.

This is always a very busy time of year for me, with sessions, filming, social engagements and so on.

I am available by appointment only – so it is wise to get yourself booked in for sessions as soon as you can, because my schedule fills up very quickly!

This year, the dungeon will be open for bookings the week between Christmas and New Year – that weird week where no one knows what day it is, you’re fed up being stuck in the house with the in-laws and the whole world seems to shut down! This is likely to get booked up very quickly, so get in touch now so you don’t miss the opportunity to session with me one last time before the year is out.

I am still working on my AVN Stars account, and loving it – it’s so easy to use and I am enjoying it very much. Sign up and see for yourself: TiffanyNaylor.com 

I am also upping the filming schedule, so if you are interested in being in my videos and you’re into Ballbusting/Trampling/Boot Licking/CBT/Foot Worship, please get in touch using my contact form which can be found here.

I look forward to seeing you in my Lair of Despair…!

Times They Are a-Changin’

Posted: September 30, 2019 in Tiffany

Greetings from my lair!

I thought I would take the time to give a little update. There’s lots of changes coming and you need to know what they are!

Social media platforms are tightening the noose and scores of sex worker accounts are being removed and deleted, without warning. It is only a matter of time before I am one of them. With this in mind I have set myself up on AVN Stars. The great thing about Stars is that it works just like Twitter – you can follow me for free and see whatever free content I put out. But it also has a subscription option, which means you get to see all my PTV content. Both options enable you to send tips and I can send you PTV messages as well. AVN is an established brand within the adult industry and Stars is not subject to the ridiculous levels of censorship found on other sites. I am still finding my feet on Stars (however September has been pretty lucrative already, so I’m confident this will only improve!) but I would strongly suggest joining the platform and following me there, because when the great social media cull happens, this will be the only place you’ll be able to keep up with me!

Similarly, to other Dommes/SWs/adult industry folk, its a good way to not only stay visible online, but to monetise your content.

Check it out here and sign up – tiffanynaylor.com 

There will be a lot of changes coming over the next few months, so keep an eye out on here to make sure you don’t miss anything!

In the meantime, sign up to AVN, keep buying my clips, and have yourself a good week.

Peace out

Disclaimer: I know men say a lot of dumb stuff, and so do women, and so do trans people, NB people, and all other flavours of people. However this morning some specific dumb things men say were on my mind, so I wrote them down to get them out of my head and give some of you either a laugh or food for thought!


I’ve been in the jizz biz for a long time now (eight years and counting if you like numbers and data) and I really have seen and heard it all. I was thinking lately about things that I hear quite often in my line of work – but also, I sometimes hear these things in the “real” world too. So, here’s a selection of a few of my favourite things that men say, and how I now respond to them.


Guy: Oh Mistress, I want to serve you

Me: oh ok, how you gonna do that then?

Guy: well I would like to cum for you

Cum for me? How in the sweet name of fuck does that constitute “serving” me?! How does you getting your nut benefit me in any way whatsoever!? That’s not servitude or submission, it’s sexual selfishness. This is rooted in man’s belief that he is entitled to orgasms any time, any place, and it’s woman’s job to make that happen. Get in the sea.


Guy: Oh Mistress, you’re incredible, I’d do anything for you

Me: anything?

Guy: anything at all! Name it!

Me: ok give me money

Guy: no not that

Again, this is something I hear from soooo many dickheads on the internet. What they’re actually saying, is that they will do whatever they want to do, under the guise of me having told them to do it, when they have already told me what that is. Sexual selfishness again. They don’t wish to serve, they are not submissive, they don’t give a fuck about what I might actually want or need, they just want to empty their horrible balls and pretend it’s what I want?! Your orgasm doesn’t pay my bills asshole, so unless it’s accompanied by payment, you can again, take a long walk into the sea and stay there.


Guy: Mistress, I’d like to do some edge play

Me: ok great, don’t cum until I tell you to

Guy: oh sorry, I came already, you’re so hot, it’s a compliment

This one crosses over into real life as well as online life – this is NOT a compliment. It is yet another example of sexual selfishness, incompetence and lack of self-control. It shows a complete disregard for their partner’s pleasure or enjoyment (in a real-world setting) and a complete lack of respect or seriousness for my time and skills professionally. What you’re really saying is, you’ve been wanking for hours and you just want someone cute to look at while you blow your beans. Get. In. the. Sea.


Guy: Mistress I want to be your slave

Me: ok great, what you need to do is pay me a dep-



Oh no, I want a lifestyle arrangement, I want someone who does it because they love it, not because they’re getting paid

Jesus fucking Christ this is my favourite. Yes, random man off the internet that I’ve never met before in my life, I’ll allow you full access to me time, energy and entire life without any kind of financial reimbursement, because YOU ARE MAN AND MAN GET WHAT HE WANTS. These are the ones than can get in the sea AND boil their own heads. It takes time and effort to end up in my world, and very few can actually be bothered to invest either, because all they’re really seeking is instant gratification. Connections are forged over time and every one of boys has earned his spot in my ranks. Each one has been polite, followed instructions, turned up on time, PAID ME, and done whatever I have asked of them without question. In turn, I give them the space and safety to be themselves, to explore their dark side, and to connect with me on a very deep level. And they have done so, consistently, over years. They’re not the entitled, horny douchebags that email me at 3am, dick in hand, demanding I cater to their whims. My boys stay because they want to, and they got here because they earned it. Servitude is about making your Mistress’s life better, easier, more fulfilling. Not about blowing your wad whilst pretending to be a sub, because you think if you pretend you are a sub you will get more of my attention. If I don’t know you, only one thing will get my attention and that is CASH.

I don’t collar my subs. I don’t need to. They have the freedom to choose what they do and who they spend their time with and EVERY SINGLE TIME they choose me. No coercion, no demanding – I’ve certainly never slid into anyone’s DMs trying to bully them into my service. They know what I expect of them and they make sure they fulfil those expectations. They know that they only have one shot with me – you fuck up, you’re gone. I have no time for anything that doesn’t enrich or enhance my life.

THAT is how you serve me.

Hello all,

I am getting together with Lady Bellatrix and Mistress Esme on Thursday 25th July for filming sessions. This will be taking place at the Blue Door Dungeon in N1, London.

We are looking for filming slaves to join us for the day. A tribute will be required, as will your ID and your signature on a release form.

You may be masked if required but those happy to film without masks are preferred. Please get in touch by using the form below – please list your areas of interest and any limitations. In particular if you are able to do ballbusting/CBT scenes that also would be preferable!

Come and present yourself to us – if you think you can handle it!

Hello dear SW friends,

I have been asked to do a presentation to my college group about sex work. As we are all trainee/nearly/newly/qualified therapists, I want to provide them with not just some basic information on sex work but also the issues, discrimination and problems we face in addition to those that are not SW exclusive.

For instance, I always mention when I had my car insurance cancelled when they found out my job, or when I was told I couldn’t buy a certain pair of shoes because the designer didn’t like what I did for a living.

If you have any examples that you think would be useful or insightful or simply inspire discussion, and would be happy with me including it in my talk then I would be super grateful. I can keep you completely anonymous or you can give a name, it’s up to you.

I want to show vanilla people just what we have to put up with in our line of work and why it is important that we all start to see sex work as real work.

Similarly, I would also like to include some content on why people visit sex workers, what they get out of it, and how it affects their mental health (if it does!) So if this is something you would like to participate in as a service seeker, I’d love to hear from you.

Thank you in advance for your participation in my little project!

I haven’t written a blog in while; I certainly haven’t written a blog that isn’t advertising what I’m up to for even longer. However, I have noticed something that is worrying me somewhat and I have felt compelled to write about it here.

A little bit of background is needed first, so here goes. If you are reading this, chances are you are already aware that I am a Dominatrix. You either know me, or know of me, and know that this is what I do. I have been doing this for six years, and have been in the adult industry for eight years. I began in the mainstream porn industry and once I discovered more about myself, my capabilities and areas of interest I changed direction and moved into the Femdom/Fetish world. With me so far? Good.

I am also a BSc Psychology and Criminology graduate. Not so many people know this, but again, it’s no secret and some of you may be aware of this.

What fewer people know, is that for the last four years I’ve been training as a therapist/counsellor. There is some disagreement over the use of these words, but for the purposes of this blog I shall be using them interchangeably, as my (unbelievably amazing, accomplished and brilliant) tutor does! I finish my training this year and am officially qualified upon completion of my client hours, but for all intents and purposes, I am proud to call myself a therapist. I have been training in Gestalt therapy and holistic approaches to therapy.

Now, the reason I mention this is because I have noticed recently that some Dommes are calling themselves therapists/counsellors. And this concerns me. A lot.

Don’t get me wrong – I fully support the notion that seeing a Dominatrix (or indeed any type of sex worker) can be an incredibly “therapeutic” or “healing” experience for many; I attended last year’s Pink Therapy conference on the intersection of therapeutic practice and sex work. It blew my mind. I have also noticed that I now use a lot of the skills I’ve learned in my therapy training in my sessions with subs – techniques used to hold space, to read between the lines, body work – noticing where in the body certain emotions or responses manifest themselves – ways of questioning that allow more than superficial, surface level responses and so on – and I feel that these skills have dramatically improved my sessions. You’d have to ask my visitors whether they agree, but for me, it has been a huge improvement and allowed me to go deeper with subs in my sessions.

Also, I am fully aware that there are indeed Dommes and other sex workers out there who ARE qualified in various forms of counselling, therapy, psychology, psychiatry and other holistic well-being approaches – I am not referring to them in this blog post.

The thing that I am worried about is that these people I’ve seen advertising themselves as therapists, offering holistic experiences and so on – who are NOT trained or qualified therapists. And I will endeavour to explain why that is and why it is dangerous.

When a client walks into a therapy room, there is no power imbalance. We meet the client on their level, and at their pace, and walk alongside them as we support them through their self-discovery. When a sub walks into a dungeon, there is a power imbalance – that’s the point, that’s why they come, because they want there to be a disparity in power. They want to submit, to be controlled, to hand over responsibility to their Domme for the duration of their time together. This is NOT how therapy works. It can be very damaging if an untrained individual were to touch upon something deep and painful within their sub; it can open up old traumas and force the person to revisit very painful memories or experiences and if these are not held in a safe, sane and consensual (SSC) way, the results can be incredibly damaging. Therapists are not experts in their clients’ lives; the client is offered the space and the opportunity to discuss their issues, in a non-judgemental place, where they are in charge of the time they have with their counsellor. When a sub comes to see a Domme, the reverse is very much true. The Domme has granted them time with her/them, the Domme dictates the speed and activities that take place (within parameters that have been discussed prior, in my case anyway) and the Domme is clearly the one in charge.

Now as I mentioned previously, I have noticed more and more how certain aspects of BOTH my chosen career paths can intersect and be beneficial to all involved. HOWEVER. This is because I have undergone the correct training, receive the correct academic, emotional and psychological support, and to put it bluntly, know what the fuck I am doing. To see others, tossing around the notion that they too are therapists or counsellors WHEN THEY ARE NOT, worries me. One lady I saw had her entire website plastered with “I’m a therapist, I can help you with addiction, I will train you to overcome your psychological issues” which, when I looked closer at the text, was her using the word “therapy” as a synonym for “Femdom”.

Now what’s to stop someone from coming across this website, or others like it, and believing that this lady is in fact a genuine therapist? Say a guy turns up, expecting therapy (this might seem a bit of a reach, but let’s assume that this guy is genuinely in need of therapy, and, like a lot of guys on the internet, hasn’t read the website properly) and goes into some very deep, disturbing stuff, because he is under the impression that she is a therapist and will know what to do?! She could cause him a lot of damage because she does not know what she is doing. Similarly it could be very damaging for her, too. Opening people up to extreme psychological trauma in a first meeting? Absolute no-no for properly trained counsellors. Counselling is long term, takes time, and is built on trust, respect and confidentiality. It is not someone calling themselves a therapist because they think it makes them sound more appealing, or to circumvent payment regulations, or an attempt to dress up their sex work as something it isn’t – it is deceitful and damaging. I also personally find it a huge insult to the therapeutic profession – it takes YEARS to train successfully as a competent therapist. It is HARD. It can be PAINFUL. And it’s an absolute pisstake, when I have done all this work, training and soul-searching, to see untrained, uninformed people slapping that title on themselves for reasons that I can only assume are either ignorant or nefarious.

I do understand that role-play is a big part of sessions for a lot of subs; and I’m not saying that role-playing as a therapist or counsellor in session is wrong. Its not, it’s quite fun, I’ve done it myself prior to undertaking my professional training. But to actually have the audacity to market oneself as a therapist, whether through ignorance or lack of awareness, or to fraudulently obtain money by deception, is incredibly risky.

If you are thinking of visiting a Domme, or a therapist – DO YOUR RESEARCH. The two are not necessarily mutually exclusive, but not all Dommes are therapists and not all therapists are Dommes. If you come across a Domme who says they are a therapist – ask where they trained or which professional body they are registered with. You can do this without requiring them to disclose any personal information (I understand and appreciate that not everyone will outwardly advertise the two jobs alongside one another, some prefer to keep these two aspects of their lives very separate) and you can then make an informed decision about whether or not you go to see them.

I would also like to point out that seeing a Domme, or any sex worker for that matter, IS NOT A SUBSTITUTE FOR SEEING A PROFESSIONAL THERAPIST. For the reasons I’ve covered in this blog post, plus many more. There are certainly therapeutic aspects to BDSM and sex work but unless it is undertaken BY A QUALIFIED PROFESSIONAL you leave yourself open to psychological harm that can be far reaching and long lasting. If you feel that you need actual therapy, you can find someone to suit your needs on sites like Counselling Directory. You can search for therapists who are knowledgeable or specialised in Kink/Fetish/BDSM/whatever you are looking for. Don’t be fooled by your favourite sex-worker calling themselves a therapist – from what I’ve seen, chances are they are not. Our mental health is so important – would you really entrust it to someone who had not undertaken any formal training? You wouldn’t visit a personal trainer who hadn’t done any fitness training, or a mechanic who couldn’t drive, so why would you visit someone for counselling when they’ve had no therapeutic training?

If BDSM practitioners wish to undertake therapeutic training in order to enhance their sessions, that’s great! For what it’s worth, I think that BDSM play has some incredibly healing aspects to it and that shouldn’t be ignored in the wider therapeutic and mental health community. However. If somebody bought all the kit and equipment to do nails, for example, would that make them a nail technician? No – because they’ve had no formal training to do so. They are just a person with all the gear and no idea. The same is true for BDSM practitioners – just because you say that you are a therapist, doesn’t mean that you actually are. Do the training, learn what that actually means to be a therapist, THEN use the title – trust me, it’s not for the faint-hearted and that title is damn well EARNED. Not just picked up and bandied about on a whim.

And with that, I am happy to openly say that I am both a therapist AND a Dominatrix. I am extremely fortunate that I have the support, training and opportunity to be able to do two jobs that I love, alongside each other. My skills and knowledge in one support the other, and vice versa. Following the completion of my client hours, I will be undertaking further training to specialise in Sexwork/Kink/Fetish/BDSM and aiming to do the majority of my work with this client group.

Remember: just because someone SAYS they’re a therapist, doesn’t mean its true. ALWAYS DO YOUR RESEARCH.

The BACP Ethical Guidelines can be found here
The NCS Ethical Guidelines can be found here

2019 Off to a Good Start!

Posted: January 9, 2019 in Tiffany

Happy New Year! It’s a little belated but this year has started with a bang and I’ve been very busy already!

I had a shoot with the amazing Giantess Productions and I cannot wait to release the content. For all of you with a tiny/Giantess fetish, you will LOVE these clips. It’s a very niche fetish but it is one I enjoy immensely – what better way to exert my power over my many minions than by towering over them?! I won’t give too much away but this content is fire. Keep an eye out on the usual clip stores!

I also have a lot of new pedal pumping content on the way – another very niche fetish but again, one I enjoy and seem to get asked a lot for.

As always I am available most days in my MK Dungeon, but this month I will also be at The Blue Door Dungeon in Islington on 30th January – session spaces will be limited so get booked in as soon as possible to avoid disappointment.

I have a very good feeling that this year is going to continue to be a busy, fun and abundant one….

London Sessions with Mistress Brook

Posted: August 26, 2018 in Tiffany

Greetings boys, babes and bitches. I trust that the Summer was an enjoyable one for you all and that you are all looking forward to getting back into the swing of things come September.

I have many things coming up this Autumn, but first of all I would like to announce that myself and my good friend Mistress Brook will be conducting sessions together at my London location on Saturday 15th September.

For those of you that have not yet met Mistress Brook, let me assure you that looks can be deceiving – she may look like butter wouldn’t melt in her mouth but do not be fooled. She is cruel, creative and knows exactly how to get you doing what she wants! We have been friends for a long time and now she is fully embracing her Domme side, we are a force to be reckoned with.

Spaces to see us both will be limited so please get in touch and book in advance to avoid disappointment. We will be available between 11am- 3pm on the day, but spaces are going to fill up fast so don’t delay.

For further information regarding these double sessions (location, rates etc) please contact me via the “Availability & Booking”  tab at the top of the page.

We look forward to seeing you in the Dungeon…