Service or Play: A Lesson in Language

Language is important. It is important to be mindful of the words we use, and to listen when people explain what those words mean to them. Language is fluid and flexible and changes over time, and what one word means to one person doesn't always mean the same to another. I want to write a … Continue reading Service or Play: A Lesson in Language

Mine: What Does Ownership Actually Mean?

I’ve been a Pro Domme for 8 years now and I’ve never had an owned slave. Some of you might think this unusual; some of you will absolutely get why this is the case. I wanted to write a little about my thoughts on the matter and go into why this particular dynamic just doesn’t … Continue reading Mine: What Does Ownership Actually Mean?

Wanker’s Remorse: An Analysis of Shame

I’d like to take a little time to expand your mind and tell you all about a little phenomenon I like to call Wanker’s Remorse. I have come across Wanker’s Remorse many a time, both personally and professionally, but more so professionally. I have seen it in vanilla perverts as well as kinky ones, but … Continue reading Wanker’s Remorse: An Analysis of Shame